Should I feel guilty?

For those that know my fun filled story, my husband cheated on me with a woman who works for him. Anyway, I live in a constant hell because THEY STILL WORK TOGETHER! Oh, according to my husband (and right now, I believe him), it’s over and JUST BUSINESS (rolls eyes).

So my community question to all those betrayed wives out there (and betrayed husbands), should I feel guilty that “she hurt her knee getting out of her car” the week before and hasn’t been able to return to work?

My inner response? THANK FUCKNESS! Sorry, this not a G-rate rant…

Thank fuckness that she’s hurt, that she’s not in the office and that she hasn’t texted him in over a week! Thank fuckness that she is feeling some type of pain. Too bad she didn’t fall and break her damn leg! Too bad she didn’t break her face!

Yeah, I’m thinking rather evilly and that’s the guilt that I “sorta” feel. But, if I were truly honest with myself, is it evil? NOT REALLY!

I just hope the EB (short for Evil Bitch) doesn’t return. I just hope she finds another damn job or stays out on “disability” for flippin’ life.

Can you all pray for me? Light a candle? Throw a penny in a fountain? Sacrifice a glass of Sauvignon Blanc to the Wind Goddess? Anyyyyything will help!

Should I feel guilty? Absofuckinglutely NOT!

20 thoughts on “Should I feel guilty?

  1. I’ve had evil thoughts before re: EB’s but I got to thinking, this karma thing, well my H is in there there too really, and just as guilty, so I don’t actually wish anymore. But let our minds wander I guess can’t hurt lol. πŸ˜‰

  2. Should you feel guilty?? Absofuckinlutely not!! I wouldn’t be limiting my wishing to a knee injury either!! These whores (our husband’s included) think of absolutely no one but themselves when they are fucking our husbands. They don’t care that there’s a wife and kids at home wondering why daddy is home late from work or why, when he’s home, he’s only there in body! They don’t give a fuck about us so why should we care an iota about them??

    I too wish the whore my husband still works with would do the decent thing for once in her cheating life and go crawl under the scabby rock from where she came!

    • I wish that for you, too! The affair bubble is very thick and the air inside is laced with LSD – they didn’t care or think about anything but themselves.

      I hope her knee swells to the size of a fucking watermelon πŸ˜‰

  3. Confused Wife says:

    ?? Maybe Karma is just tapping her on the shoulder? A gentle reminder of what you give out, you get back?
    Your happiness is not misplaced, it’s quite restrained I think!

  4. No you should not feel guilty at all. My husband worked with his affair partner for a year after he ended the affair. I didn’t find out about the affair until a few months after she quit. She finally gave up and left when she realized he wasn’t going to come to his “senses” and come back to her. It was an odd year. I realized that the threat had lessened, and this was true to a greater and greater degree as the year went on. It’s like he spent that year detoxing from the affair. However, he was not able to TRULY understand what she was, what he had done, etc. until she was gone from his life totally and completely. No contact. While she was around he still held on to some of the justifications etc. for cheating. Our therapist commented once to him that the affair was never completely over until she left the business and was 100% out of his life. You have my thoughts and prayers, I don’t think I could stand them seeing each other at all.

    • Thank you! So, it’s not just me — I’m not totally evil thinking evil thoughts about the evil bitch! YAY FOR ME! πŸ˜‰

      I liked what the therapist said. It’s been 2 weeks and I wonder if my husband is feeling better — I think so, things are going well. And because I’m not a psycho wife still worried that she can make a pass and down the drain our marriage goes, I think I feel NORMAL for the first time since Dday.

      Thank you xxoo

  5. Yes my dear – you certainly have every right to feel the way you do. Heck mine don’t even work together and I sometimes wish I could send her to the moon (no return ticket). I think you’ve been pretty gracious considering proximity and all. I believe that they should NOT be working together -I don’t know if he has the authority to but he should terminate her (perfect time since she been gone). If he has survived two weeks without her then he can find someone to replace her. Not sure where you live but in US (at least California) unless under contract you are an “at will ” employee meaning either party can end the association – no reason is required. You hold your head high and stand your ground, he should of (at least attempted to) change this LONG before now. p.s. – since she wasn’t woman enough to exit stage right, then I pray her leg falls off!! Don’t lower yourself to her level though by getting too carried away. We are WAY better than they are – unfortunately they GIVE women the reasons to feel this way!

    • Love your ideas! Especially the comment about “wasn’t woman enough”

      Yeah, I’m hoping her damn leg turns black and falls off!

      Can’t stand the bitch!

      Thanks so much for your support, btw – always appreciated πŸ™‚

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